Shameful boys misbehave alone girls in streets
Shame won’t get you anywhere. People stop listening when you shame them. Shame is about dogma and fear. It isn’t what people will relate to or want to appease. No I don’t think it’s wrong to confront them.
But you should probably take a different approach. Explain to her that she is using human beings. She is using their genuine feelings for her/ these men really care about her. They really believe that she likes them. And she is taking something so beautiful – because when someone likes us , it’s not because we are rad. It’s because they are rad. It’s so rare and really lovely to care about someone , to trust someone , to love someone so much that you want to do things for them.
She is manipulating people. She is hurting them, and most of all she is lying to people. She needs to know that these guys really believe that she likes them and that one day they will be with her. That is ugly. That is so ugly of her to do. To lie to people. To use them. To take credit for their feelings for her.